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Why Leaders Need Self Awareness Before Every Decision

Jonathan Riley

Think back on your week. How many times did you move straight from thought to action—firing off an email, giving direction, or making a decision—without pausing to notice your own state first?

Most business owners have to move quickly. But moving fast without paying attention often causes confusion, frustration, or extra work.

This week’s focus on self-awareness boils down to one idea: pause before action. That pause doesn’t need to be long. It can be one breath, one quick question, or one moment of reflection before stepping into a room. But that pause changes everything.

When you slow down just enough to notice yourself—your tone, your presence, your energy—you gain control over how you are experienced. And how you are experienced is what defines your leadership.

Here’s the challenge for next week:

  • Before your next meeting, ask yourself: “What state am I in right now?”
  • Afterward, ask: “How might I have been perceived?”

It only takes seconds, but those seconds shape trust, clarity, and influence. Awareness before action is not just a practice—it’s a leadership advantage.

If you are committed to strengthening your leadership and building a culture that sustains performance, I invite you to take the next step. You can schedule a call with me to discuss coaching, consulting, or workshops that align with your business needs. You can also download my ebook A Leaders Way – The Psychology Behind Great Leadership here. For regular insights on leadership and resilience, follow me on LinkedIn.